Vow Polish
$149
Refine your words, strengthen the flow, and make every line sound unmistakably like you.
Polish My Vows →
Wedding vow & speech writer
Say what matters most when it matters most.
Toasted by Jamie is an Asheville-based wedding vow and speech-writing studio creating personalized words that sound like you—only clearer, braver, and beautifully ready to be heard. Available nationwide over Zoom.
I help you find the words.
You don’t need to sound like a poet. You need to sound like yourself. Together, we’ll turn the moments, memories, and feelings in your heart into words you’ll be proud to say out loud.
For the two of you
Wedding vows
From a thoughtful polish to a fully guided experience, choose the support that feels right. Explore wedding vow writing and editing.
Signature Vows
$299
Personal vows created from your memories, your voice, and the promises only you can make.
Write My Vows With Me →Vow Experience
$449
A thoughtful interview, custom vows, revisions, and private delivery coaching.
Tell Me Your Story →Couples Vow Experience
$599
Beautifully balanced vows for both partners while keeping each person’s words their own.
Help Us With Our Vows →For the people who love them
Wedding speeches
Heartfelt, memorable, and just the right amount of funny—without ever sounding canned. Explore wedding speech writing and coaching.
Speech Polish
$149
A warm edit that keeps your best stories and makes your toast clearer, tighter, and easier to deliver.
Polish My Speech →Signature Wedding Speech
$299
A custom speech built around your relationship, your memories, and what you want them to remember.
Help Me Write My Speech →Toast Experience
$399
A fully written speech, collaborative revisions, and one-on-one delivery coaching.
Let’s Make a Toast →How it works
Simple, personal,
and never awkward.
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Tell me your story
We’ll talk over Zoom about your people, your memories, and what you want to say.
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We shape the words
I’ll write or refine your piece, then we’ll collaborate until every line feels true.
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Say it with confidence
You’ll arrive with words that feel natural, meaningful, and ready for the moment.
Meet your writer
Hi, I’m Jamie.
English teacher. Professional editor. Lifelong believer in the power of the right words.
For more than two decades, I’ve helped people find their voice on the page. Toasted by Jamie brings together my experience as an English teacher, editor, and storyteller with the part I love most: helping people say the things that truly matter.
I’ll listen closely, ask the questions that uncover the good stuff, and make sure the final words sound like you—not like something pulled from the internet.
JamieQuestions, answered
Wedding writing support that feels personal.
Every project begins with your story and ends with words that sound unmistakably like you.
Can you write my wedding vows from scratch?
Yes. Through a thoughtful intake and private Zoom conversation, I learn your story, voice, memories, and promises, then create personalized vows that feel natural to say aloud.
Can you edit vows I already wrote?
Absolutely. I can preserve your meaning while strengthening the structure, clarity, rhythm, and emotional impact of the words you already have.
Whose wedding speeches do you help with?
I write and edit speeches for maids and matrons of honor, best men, parents, partners, friends, and family members—anyone trusted with an important toast.
Do you offer virtual speech coaching?
Yes. Delivery coaching takes place over Zoom, so you can practice pacing, tone, pauses, and confidence from anywhere in the United States.
Will the writing still sound like me?
That is the entire point. I listen for your natural voice and shape the final piece around your personality—not a generic wedding template.
How far ahead should I book?
Earlier is always better, especially during busy wedding seasons. Share your event date in the intake form, and I’ll confirm availability and timing before work begins.
Ready when you are
Let’s create words
they’ll never forget.
Tell me what you’re celebrating, when the big day is, and where you’d like a little help.
Start your intake