Wedding vow & speech writer
Toasted by Jamie is an Asheville-based wedding vow and speech-writing studio creating personalized words that sound like you—only clearer, braver, and beautifully ready to be heard. Available nationwide over Zoom.
You don’t need to sound like a poet. You need to sound like yourself. Together, we’ll turn the moments, memories, and feelings in your heart into words you’ll be proud to say out loud.
Meet your writer
For more than two decades, I’ve helped people find their voice on the page. Toasted by Jamie brings together my experience as an English teacher, editor, and storyteller with the part I love most: helping people say the things that truly matter.
I’ll listen closely, ask the questions that uncover the good stuff, and make sure the final words sound like you—not like something pulled from the internet.
For the two of you
Choose personal vow writing, a fully guided writing-and-delivery experience, or private support for both partners. Every client begins with a free 10-minute Fit Call. Explore wedding vow writing.
Personal vows written from scratch around your memories, your voice, and the promises only you can make.
A fully guided writing and delivery experience for words that feel true on the page and natural at the altar.
A private, deeply personalized experience that gives both partners vows that feel balanced, distinct, and completely their own.
For the people who love them
Heartfelt, memorable, and just the right amount of funny—without ever sounding canned. Explore wedding speech writing and coaching.
A custom speech built around your relationship, your memories, and what you want everyone to remember.
A fully written speech plus one-on-one coaching so the words land just as beautifully as they read.
How it works
We’ll spend 10 minutes talking about what you need and deciding whether we’re a good fit—without payment or pressure.
If we’re a good fit and I accept your project, I’ll send the recommended package and your secure payment link.
Once you’re accepted as a client, you’ll complete the deeper questionnaire. Signature packages include a 30-minute private interview; individual Experience packages include a 60-minute private interview. Couples Vow Experience includes a 30-minute joint interview plus a separate 60-minute private interview with each partner.
I’ll write your piece, send your first draft within seven business days, and make the revisions included in your package.
Questions, answered
Every project begins with your story and ends with words that sound unmistakably like you.
Begin with a free 10-minute Fit Call. We’ll talk briefly about what you need and decide whether we’re a good fit. No payment or deeper questionnaire is required before the call.
If I accept your project, I’ll send the recommended package and your secure payment link. Once you’re officially a client, you’ll receive the deeper questionnaire and instructions for scheduling the private Zoom interview included in your package.
Yes. Every package starts with a free 10-minute Fit Call and includes a private interview after acceptance. Signature packages include 30 minutes; individual Experience packages include 60 minutes. Couples Vow Experience includes 30 minutes together plus 60 private minutes with each partner.
Each partner completes a separate questionnaire and meets with me privately after our joint interview. I write two distinct but balanced sets of vows and keep each person’s words confidential until the ceremony.
Yes. Through the deeper client questionnaire and our private Zoom conversation, I learn your story, voice, memories, and promises, then create personalized vows that feel natural to say aloud.
Bring them. Your existing words can help me hear your voice and understand what matters most, then I’ll shape them into a complete custom piece through the same personal process.
I write speeches for maids and matrons of honor, best men, parents, partners, friends, and family members—anyone trusted with an important toast.
Yes. Delivery coaching takes place over Zoom, so you can practice pacing, tone, pauses, and confidence from anywhere in the United States.
Your first draft is delivered within seven business days after full payment, your completed deeper questionnaire, all requested materials, and your included interview. Revisions are returned within three business days after I receive your feedback.
When my schedule allows, eligible projects can receive a first draft within three business days for an additional 40% rush fee, with a $100 minimum. Mention your deadline during the Fit Call so I can confirm availability before you book.
That is the entire point. I listen for your natural voice and shape the final piece around your personality—not a generic wedding template.
Earlier is always better, especially during busy wedding seasons. Choose a Fit Call time and share your event date so I can confirm availability before you book a package.
Ready when you are
Start with a free, no-pressure 10-minute conversation. If it feels right, I’ll follow up personally with the best package and your secure booking link.
Book a Free 10-Minute Fit Call